Since November 2014 we’ve had an amazing breakthrough with MyItchyBoy’s eczema.
MyItchyBoy has had eczema for over five years. Not just a little bit, but the kind of eczema that takes over the life of the whole family. The hospital letters refer to it as ‘severe’.
In the last two years I don’t think we have put MyItchyBoy to bed without using steroid cream and an antihistamine. During the first half of 2014 he had at least two bouts of infected skin with the resulting oral steroid and antibiotic treatments.
Since getting regular appointments with our local dermatology department, we have been given topical steroids (hydrocortisone, Eumovate, Elocon, Elidel and Protopic), offered UVB treatment by one consultant and then advised against it by another. We’ve been recommended azathioprine immune suppressant treatment (I have refused to get it done twice now as I’d rather we went on suffering than mess around with his poor little body to that extreme) and we’ve had oral steroids for a couple of months all with little or no effect.
October 2014
I met a woman at work whose daughter was reaching 12mths old and had had eczema for several months. The family were still waiting for their NHS dermatology appointment to come through after getting nowhere with their GP.
I’d been sent tweets and read articles about a treatment for eczema by a Dr Aron and had an idea of what was involved but remained sceptical. Like me, this new colleague was in the process of deciding whether or not to give Dr Aron a go. For her, the decision was made by weighing up the cost of going to the local private dermatology clinic and potentially getting nowhere or going for something rumoured to really help eczema.
I saw her a week after she’d started the treatment with her daughter. She gave me back the book I’d lent her and said she no longer needed it. After three days of using the cream, her daughter was eczema free.
November 2014
If I’d read that online, I’d have remained sceptical. But, when the person is in front of you, telling you it did really happen, it’s hard to ignore. Husband and I held out until our next dermatology appointment, which was only a few weeks away, with the intention of discussing this treatment as a possible solution for MyItchyBoy. I was looking for reassurance that it wasn’t a crazy idea, that it wouldn’t be detrimental and to find out if it was possible to be get the cream on the NHS.
Sadly, we ended up with the worst consultant in the department (we’ve seen him before, so trust me, it’s true). He’d never heard of Dr Aron, despite the coverage in the national press and online. He wasn’t interested in discussing it either. He gave us another prescription for oral steroids and a blood test sheet for azathioprine. Frustration got the better of me and I signed up with Dr Aron that evening.
The response was quick and we were using the new cream within the week.
Apologies the photos aren’t great, but I took them for me rather than for this site. The day we started the cream his skin is what we would have called ‘really good’ so they do not show how bad it used to get.
I won’t go into the details of the cream here as they are easy to find online and this post will get really, really long if I do. However, I am happy to answer any questions in the comments below or email me (hello@myitchyboy.co.uk).
What I will say is – two months later and it has changed our life.
How life has changed for us in two months:
- Sleep. We now get sleep. All night, most nights (he’s still only 5, so we get the occasional complaint about the rain being noisy or bad dreams). No complaints about being itchy or requests for cream though. All without antihistamines. Love it.
- One cream means no decisions on which steroid strength to use where, when and for how long. Easy for us and for anyone else babysitting
- Quick communication and feedback by email. I can email Dr Aron at 11pm and there’s usually a reply by breakfast time. Someone is there listening and evaluating, when I need them to – great! This was essential when things got a bit skewed in late December when MyItchyBoy had an allergic reaction and was given three days oral steroids, for example.
- We no longer use Epaderm ointment. The bedding, his clothes, our clothes are no longer sticky. Bedding lasts longer and our clothes are not in danger of being ruined
- No more blood on the bed sheets
- No more creamy school trousers from MyItchyBoy having to apply his own emollient at lunchtime
- No more MyItchyBoy having to put cream on at lunchtime in the classroom
- No more weekly trips to the pharmacist for repeat NHS prescriptions
- No more bedtimes of putting steroids on, then waiting for 20 mins or so before getting back out of bed to apply emollient. One cream, soaks in quickly, no stickiness = easier bedtime
- MyItchyBoy slept through the night at my Mum’s. That means they might actually let him stay again soon (they only did it when were desperate as he’d be up 4 times or so in the night needing cream) which will be great for me and Husband ongoing
- A happy boy – no longer irritable through lack of sleep or of being constantly itchy
- For me, Husband and I being able to chat uninterrupted in the kitchen while MyItchyBoy plays upstairs on his own for a half an hour or so has really brought it home. This was impossible before as we would have to keep checking on whether he was scratching his skin. It helps everyone in the house be far more relaxed
We have yet to attempt to reintroduce any foods that would ordinarily impact his skin, however the allergist did say this could be a possibility in a few months if his skin continues to be clear.
Of course, it’s not all good.
- The cream is a private treatment so you do have to pay for it. For us, it was weighing up the cost of encasements for MyItchyBoy’s mattress to prevent against dust mites in the desperate hope that it may make a difference when we realised that the same money on this treatment may have a better result. I feel confident in saying it has.
- Ordering and delivery. Ok, this is a bit of a pain as it’s not as easy as picking it up from your local pharmacist. We’ve managed ok so far, but had to pick a couple up from the sorting office as it needs signing for and usually comes when we’re out.
Do I care about either of these?
When I look at MyItchyBoy, when I hold his soft, non-scabbed hand, kiss his soft cheeks at night, watch him playing happily without scratching at all……….no, I don’t care about these things.
- The cream does include a steroid. For us, we were using them on MyItchyBoy every night anyway. The difference is that now his skin looks great, whereas we were using them and they didn’t make a difference. I am hoping that we will soon reach a point where we can keep off topical steroids for the majority of the time. For me, I’d rather a topical steroid then oral steroids or treatments that will start interfering with other parts of this body or subjecting him to more hospital visits and blood tests.
We saw dermatologists as part of our allergy appointment at St Thomas’ in London last week and they were pleased to see that they weren’t really needed. They knew about Dr Aron and his methods and were supportive.
What stuck in my mind was the consultant saying ‘It demonstrates that his eczema can be managed using a topical treatment’. Yes!! Something the NHS has failed to prove to us in 4 years of trying.
We’re only two months in, so we’re still using the cream on a regular basis and it’s hard to be sure yet what the longer-term outlook is. Now I’m looking forward to our next local dermatology appointment in early February to see what they say about the transformation.
What does MyItchyBoy think of it?
I asked MyItchyBoy what he thought the good and bad bits about his new cream were. He said that the good thing was that it has worked quickly. And bad bits? None.
We talked him through the whole process from the beginning: that we were considering this new option, that it may really help, but that we needed his buy-in as it would mean putting the cream on regularly (starts with 4-5 times a day) and he wouldn’t be able to kick up a fuss about it. We talked him through changes to routine at home and school and explained clearly that although we hoped it would work, there was no guarantee. Luckily he was up for it and has been brilliantly cooperative (despite some odd places he’s had to strip down to get cream on during the first few weeks). I think him seeing (and feeling!) a result so quickly means he is keen to use the cream in a way he never was before.
What else can I say? If your experience with eczema has been anything like ours, and if you can afford it, then I recommend giving it a go.
Tony says
I’ve just discovered Dr Aron’s method and have yet to try it myself but I was impressed by all the stories I’ve read and seen. Been doing loads of research on Eczema alternative treatments. I started using Apple Cider and Probiotics because I heard about leaky guts. Its only been 3 days but it might make a difference I don’t know.
I’ve had Eczema since I was 14 and I have managed to get it under control with steroid creams and Moisterisers but recently its been getting bad again. Could be the cold weather.
MyItchyBoy says
I wish we’d tried the Dr Aron treatment much earlier so I would recommend looking in to it. I think the cold weather always does make a difference. Most likely the central heating as well as both tend to dry out the skin. It takes up a lot of emotional energy sometimes and we forget how much irritating skin can really affect our mood. I hope you get on top of it again soon.
Victoria Wolf says
It is brilliant to read your story. Before we went for it and emailed Dr Aron I was so suspicious of all the amazing stories of this brilliant treatment. Now, on week 4 of treatment I am so desperate to let people know about this treatment. All me and my husband used to wish for as a break, a break for us all from the creaming, the antihistamine, the constant itching, the wondering. What was it that caused this worsened bit of skin? And here we are on just 2 applications a day, no additional greasy creams or anything. I’m beside myself, I don’t even know how to celebrate. Life is so much better for us but I want this treatment for other children and families too. Dermatologists have to start paying attention!
MyItchyBoy says
That’s great news! We are using a sticky emollient now as well as the cream as the wintry weather is causing some dryness. Still keeping the eczema at bay though, which is so good.
Sheila says
Another delighted Dr Aron patient here – our now 6 year old had been under Dr Aron’s care for 6 months. I’ve been following myitchyboy for a while (after spotting a tweet with #draron) and I’m so pleased that it is working out for your son with Dr Aron!
Kay says
Wow! I think I could almost have wrote this myself! I’m a mother of a Dr Aron patient (7 year old Son) whos life has also been transformed in the last 6wks! So happy for your family x
MyItchyBoy says
I’m so happy that we’ve joined the happy family of Dr Aron patients 🙂 It’s amazing how much of life is affected by eczema and not just the child/ren but the whole family. It’s not until it’s gone that you realise the impact by its absence. I am really, really enjoying the sleep we now get. Something taken for granted by most parents of 5 year olds!
Lisa says
Wow your story is so similar to ours. The impact that eczema has on a child, siblings and parents is uncomprehendable if you haven’t been through it. Your blog captures this beautifully. We have also found Dr Aron and have had amazing results. Best of luck for your “not” itchy boy!
MyItchyBoy says
Thanks. I know, I may have to rename the blog if it continues so well! 🙂
Laura says
Fantastic! As the mother of another Dr Aron patient I can totally relate to so much of what you’ve written. Look forward to reading the next instalment!
MyItchyBoy says
I’m glad you too have found relief. Will update after our next dermatology appt.
Helen Rowe says
I wish I had found your website earlier. I also have an itchy boy and am trying to contain my excitement at this cream you are talking about. Next stop, Dr Aron.
One thing, did you try installing a water softener at your home and if so did it make a difference? We live in the London area and i have just had 2 appointments this week with water softener companies.
Thank you. It’s a relief to know there are people out there who understand what it;s like to cream and decide which steroid to use every single day, which doesn’t seem to make any difference anyway!
MyItchyBoy says
Hi, sorry to hear you are struggling too. We are still using the Dr Aron cream and he is still sleeping really well. We still get occasional flare ups especially in the pollen season and sun screen has set his arms off again this last week. However, we are managing his skin so much better than we used to be able to and it has never got as bad as it used to. I get upset when I think about all the months we went through with his raw skin and how little we all slept. Now he it is under control at least we can go about family life without eczema being the number one thing to think about all the time.
We haven’t tried water softeners and we do live in a very hard water area. However, I have not seen hard evidence that it makes a difference. The best thing to try I think is to go and stay somewhere for a week or two where the water is naturally soft and find out if there is a big difference before paying out any money?